Every person in this world wants to have someone to love, someone to share good and bad things in life. Humans are social animals they are not designed to be alone. This is why sometimes we make some bad choices when it comes to choose our love and even the friends that we have. We would rather be with someone who is not good for us, than to be alone.
In that situation we don’t make chooses with the help of our rational mind but with our heart. And sometimes we will accept being with someone who is not good for us.
The most important thing to know in this kind of situation is that you should always choose wisely the people who are with you. Don’t make the choices based on your fear of being alone. Those choose are probably not good and irrational.
Sometimes it is better to be alone and not with someone who does not respect you. You should have self respect and when you feel like someone is not good with you just leave. Do not be afraid to be strong alone, this way people will not disrespect you.
People know when a person has self respect and they respect that. A person who knows their values it is respected.
On the other hand when a person lets people disrespect them just because they are aria to be alone, nobody has a respect for that.
The same applies not just to a love partner but also with friends and even family. Sometimes even the people in your family do not have enough respect for you. They think that if you are related they cold be loved unconditionally.
You should be selfish when it comes to your happiness and self respect. You should always just choose the people that choose you. You should be with the people that want to be with you. You should know your value and never accept something less than what you deserve, even if this means you would be alone. Sometimes it is better to be alone than in bad company.
When you know your worth, people see you differently, when you show attitude and confidence in yourself, other people act the same way with you.
Always show how much you respect yourself and love yourself in every situation. It is not arrogance to love yourself, it is confidence. And confident people are respected by others. This way someone will come in your way and show you the same respect you show and you will not be alone anymore.
And always remember, you should always respect others too. Show the same respect to other that you want to be shown to you. Never disrespect someone and pt down people. Confident people do not put others down, they lift them up. When it comes totally, friends or love partner respect is everything.